"A time will come for singing, when all your
tears are shed, when all your chains are broken, and broken hearts
will mend. The deaf will hear your singing when silent tongues are
freed...
Dan Schutte's hymn, selected by Sister Carmelite to
open the Vesper service, set the tone for sharing cherished memories
of a sister who had gained a place in hearts over the years, and who
had so patiently awaited this day.
Sister Therese quoted from a letter of Sister Mary
Bernadina in 1969 to Sister Mary Liguori, then secretary general, to
clear up the record for social security. (She had been adopted by the
McGurk family after the death of her father, a young physician, and
her name was changed.) 'That is the way this weary world rotates on
many errors and inconveniences. But God is good, and he will fix
everything perfect in the end."
Sister Mary Damian recalled being a postulant in
1941 in Rosaryville, then recently acquired from the Spanish Dominican
Fathers. Sr. M. Bernadina, newly appointed vicaress of Rosaryville,
substitute novice mistress for Sr. M. Dolores who was ill, did in fact
demonstrate her famous dictum, washing the sheets twice, rinsing them
three times. In that as in picking strawberries, she would never ask
others to do anything she herself did not do, and more.
Sister Marguerite Brou visited Sister in the
hospital after her car accident. Ever determined, Sr. M. Bernadina had
dutifully learned to drive in Rosaryville, but barely survived when
her car stalled on the train track. She was in a full body cast, flat
on her back for months. She had persuaded the nurse to carve a niche
in the cast for her rosary.
Sister Rose Bowen remembered in Paulina, Sister Mary
Bernadina never expected others to even approach her legendary
capacity for work; all she did, and inspired others to do, was always
"for the Kingdom."
Sister Lorraine Torres was inspired by chapter talks
in Paulina: "encounters with Christ, and with the living
God." She had tender memories from the infirmary years, quoting
Sister, by then aging, ill, mostly deaf, and going blind: "We're
just hanging here between heaven and earth until the good Lord calls,
and there's nothing we can do about it." Sister Mary Bernadina's
copy of Tanqueray, the Dominican spiritual classic, had every line
underscored.
Betty Doskey recalled earlier chapter talks in
Rosaryville. Later, as a young sister-student one summer at LSU with
Sisters Mary Albert and Kathleen, Betty experienced Sister's great
kindness. Sr. M. Bernadina had been sent to "take care" of
them. "She did everything so we could study." Sister Mary
David believes that Seventh Ward hospital may have been the only place
where all the rags were ironed, with Sr. M. Bernadina in charge of the
laundry. Her employees were given their corrections in the privacy of
the morgue, to avoid embarrassment, but Sister Mary David said the
atmosphere tended to inhibit them.
Sister Waldia could never forget her first mission,
confiding in Sister Mary Bernadina as superior her dilemma at
following the proscription against eating in front of her family while
on a short trip, leaving everyone uncomfortable. A true Dominican by
instinct, Sister had no hesitation in assuring the young nun that
"Charity above everything" was the rule to follow.
Sister Mary Juliana was stationed in Paulina under
Sr. M. Bernadina, and appreciated Sister's kindness in helping her to
handle the challenge of being missioned to her own home territory,.
Sr. M. Bernadina was kind to her younger brother, then in seventh
grade, in a way that prepared him for life.
At the Mass of burial Dec. 21, Fr. Paul Philibert,
O.P. was celebrant and Sr. M. Michael O'Shaughnessy, homilist. Fr.
Vincent J. O'Connell, S.M., added a note of personal recollection.
Approaching his eighty-first birthday with a lifelong dedication to
securing rights for the oppressed, he acknowledged Sister's
encouragement to him as a young priest in Paulina, when his life was
being threatened and no one else would support him. "Don't listen
to them," she had said of the voices of caution, "and don't
be too scared." She was, as would be said today, "her own
person," a woman with a larger vision.